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” Try not to resist the changes that come your way. Instead let life live through you. And don’t worry that your life is turning upside down. How do you know the side you are used to is better than the one to come?”

Shams of Tabriz

Forty Rules of Love.

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‪The hearts of gold are hearts that never change despite the circumstances, despite the distance no matter what they go through their feelings towards you remains the same. ‬

القلوب اللي من ذهب ، عمرها ما تتغير ؛ رغم الضروف، رغم المسافة و رغم الصعوبات. حبهم لكم يتم مثل ماهو مايتغير مع الزمن!

 

London, 2014

It doesn’t matter what you do as long as you do it with love and passion.

It doesn’t matter what you do as long as you do it with love and passion. There isn’t a good job or a bad job, everyone is capable at shining in whatever they do even if the world see’s that its not the best job. You can love what you do for the joy that it brings you!
Sometimes I come across people with high positions that are always complaining and that spread negative vibes around and that are never satisfied! And sometimes I see people with the most basic jobs yet they shine and never stop smiling and greeting others with kindness.

Anything you do should make you a better person it shouldn’t make you snobby or grumpy! It doesn’t matter what job you do, what matters is how you treat people and how you shine in what you do!

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The five languages of Love by Gary Chapman 
I completed this book last month and I can say that this book is very useful. Gary Chapman wrote the 5 languages of love for married couples (Which I haven’t read yet) and it was very successful. Many single people were interested in knowing more about the different love languages when dealing with their fiancées, family, friends or colleagues  at work. Chapman decided to write a book that is dedicated to singles and also suitable for couples.
I found this book useful because it mentions that people have different love languages that they speak and that we should try to learn other people’s languages to establish or improve our relationships with others. We all love differently and we all have different approaches to love. They key of this book is that not all of us feel loved the same way, some feel loved by words, some by actions, some by gifts etc… If we learn to understand the love language of the person that we are dealing with then we will be able to communicate wisely instead of being selfish and only thinking about what makes us feel loved. In any relationship either its friendship, family or marriage both parties should make an effort in adapting and trying to speak the language of the other person. 
What is mentioned in this book makes sense because we all have different personalities and we all identify love differently, however its an eye opening and a reminder that we are all different even if we have many similarities. Also, love is not enough to remain a constant successful relationship we shall learn the languages of others and respect them.